how to win back a igbo man heart

by tanya benjamin
(atlanta,ga Usa)

If you talked a little to much ,or just wasn't ready when he was to settle down! How can you receive forgiveness and let him know you are able,willing and ready for these things now to commit to a igbo man and get forgiveness from him !He will not talk or speak to me do I have a chance at love again!

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To Win Back Igbo Man
by: Anonymous

I think he would fall back in love if you could make him a delicious bitter leaf soup (from experience)

in love
by: Anonymous

I called him again he says it's not going to work! I tried giving up is not an option ,but you cant make someone love you!

not by force
by: Anonymous

You can t force some one to love you, if the igbo man does not want the relationship, just let him go

It did'nt work
by: Anonymous

Thanks for the comments and concerns,but I have moved on o bigger and better things life goes on he will miss when I'm gone! Blessings and Love

by: Watch Man

There is just nothing specific you could do to win back any kind of guy whether he is black or white apart from just being yourself. He can either like you or not depending on your character and attitude towards him.

Your believes about certain things in his life matters also, kind of life you want to live. "like attracts like" is a kind of adage over here, so personally I think he would come back if he sees what he is searching for in you

my two cent

by: Anonymous

thanks but I hav found a good nigeria man that really loves me I have moved on and I so blessed to have him we are palnning to be married in feb i will keep you all posted also i will be traveling to lagos nigeria in feb to have traditional wedding ! I am so happy

Nigerian Men And Nigerian Foods
by: Blessing

Hello, You promised to keep us all posted. Did you end up getting married in feb as you intuited? I would love to hear more about the affair. I am just reading your story and thought I should add my two cents since I actually didn't notice the thread initially.

In case you are reading this for the first time probably because you want to get back your man the first question is; Is the relationship worth savoring? some relationship are really not worth resurrecting IMHO.

But you need to know if you have done something really bad to piss him off then in that case you obviously need to apologize but aside that, forget it.

Most importantly I would add that Nigerian men like to eat well made Nigerian foods, we have the best guide to Making Nigerian foods in the world, check it out

How to get back an igbo man
by: Anonymous

I hope your guy is not a Nigerian, if he is then your days of troubles are only beggining. Spells don't stay on Nigerian men, especially if he attends my church! Look toward Asia maybe you will find gullible men!

how to win back an igbo man
by: Anonymousfelix

1,dress to lmpreas 2, smell good

spell to help your marriage
by: Anonymous

Please listen to the advice given to you prior. Spells do not stay long with Nigerian men. If that man finds out what you did MAY GOD HELP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. Food for thought (if you do not know, that was a witch doctor). Pray to Jesus Christ and ask for forgiveness. Jesus can heals you and your marriage with no pay backs or regrets.

hapiness in marriage
by: Anonymous

Prayer to God in heaven is the key to succesful marriage.Who originated marriage?God.He only nos the secret of hw to mak it wok.Wat u don't stop givin up in prayer s ll dfinatly giv up for u.

leave my husband alone
by: Anonymous

I have been married to a Nigerian man for 30 years we had a wonderful marriage until a 29year old girl went after him. She got him in bed got pregnant and thought he was going to marry her.and come to US. My husband took all my money and put are son and me homeless. I ask my husband what attracted him to her and he said she's 29. I'm from Chicago. Illinois. And my husbands name is Emmanuel I Obioha. For more than 25 years he treated me like a queen.Now I guess I m to old. These girls need to leave other women husband's a long. And stop acting like whore.

Nigerian igbo
by: Anonymous

I been with Nigerian man for 9years in he try to come to America to be with he getting very mad because everything is not moving fast enough for him so now his taking all anger out on he talk to me but when he feelllike ttalking to me and he talks to me it's about the paper work or didiI get any news for him if I said no he stop talking to me

Get Back Your Ex
by: David

Beware of these guys posing as spell casters, please avoid them like plagues. Follow the right and decent route and get back your ex.

ibo useless husband
by: Anonymous

USELESS IBO CRAP, don't be obsessed about those men! if you are not from ibo don't go for it - I mean all Europeans. You will regret it. they are cap lazy, crap useless- cant repair a thing, sofa and alkohol is his best friend. Need a servant. No woman from Europe wants this crap.

You met the wrong guy - Get back Ex
by: David

To the last poster, sorry, you probably met the lazy type and you don't need to judge everyone else based on your first experience.

Igbo men
by: Anonymous

I am a British black Caribbean woman.I have been dating an Igbo man for the past few months. I love the Nigerian culture, food, music, cloths etc. I have been told over and over by Nigerian colleagues that I will end up marrying a Nigerian. I am learning his native tongue, I can't cook the food, however, he does and he thoroughly enjoys my Caribbean cuisine. My parents are from the smaller islands. This man has called me his nkem, told me he loves me over and over. Even when he gets under my skin I tell him as I see it being the forthright person I am. My nigerian male friend has says to me this guy must really care for you as no matter what I say, he gives me a few days to calm down and I get a message hi babes etc. I have read so much negativity about Igbo men just thought I would write something positive. I have heard Nigerian men say, once a woman is too boisterous and stands her ground they take off.

I dumped him, bt want hm bck nw
by: Anonymous

I met an igbo guy, we were together for 3 years we lived together, bt i got tired of him cz i started seeing he was starting to being controlling, he ddnt want me to hang with my frnds anymo, he wanted to knw wher i ws, wit who i ws? Doin wat? I just got annoyed with all those contolling questions, i dumped him because i felt trapped wit no freedom to breath, ok so nw its been 3 months wev been broken up. Bt nw i wnt him bck because i still lovw him deeply, n he has already moved on, his having a new galfrnd n theyre stayin together, iv tried getting him bck bt he doesnt wnt me, he keeps telling me i must change n that he still loves me, n that myb 1 day will b together again, he keeps puttin my hopes i wnt 2 ask u peeps is the any chance for us ever getting bck together? Me iv lost hope, i dnt knt knw....

I love him
by: Anonymous

I am so intrigued by my nigerian man. I love his tradition and when he tells me about his culture I really am excited. His love seems very genuine and he wants to get married. I am open to learning all I need to know and experienced the differences between our cultures. My friends and even family members say negative things about African men only from hear say but I won't let that detour me from my own judgement cause I so enjoy him and ultimately it's my decision.. it will be a welcome change for me because I can't see what can be worst than the way your treated by your own men in America. God first before every decision.

by: Anonymous

I was in a relationship with a Hausa man for 8mo. When I found out he had been having an affair for 2mo. He treated me wonderful when I was with him. We were planning on getting married & starting a family. When I confronted him about the affair, he didnt think I should have a problem with it. Point is no matter how great they treat you, odds are your not the only one.

I made a mistake I pray to get my Igbo man back
by: Liza

I have been in a LDR with an Igbo man. He's in the states and I'm in the Philippines. I know, this man loves me so much though we haven't really met yet. I prayed for him, he prayed for me. This wasn't just a girlfriend/boyfriend thing. Though our relationship was really far, the Lord knows our hearts. We made a covenant between the two of us and the Lord. But I screwed things up. I was very possesive and jealous and oftentimes I would start an argument just because I missed him. The race was also a big issue. There were things that were petty for me but a real taboo for him. We used to talk twice a day.. No matter how busy he is since he is really struggling in the US now.. But I was always kinda moody when we don't talk. He said he got fed up and all the quarrels killed everything he has for me. The Lord knows I love him, so mucj with all my heart. I asked for forgiveness and promised that I will change, I asked for one last chance. But he doesn't wanna try anymore. He fears that when we get together I will just nag on him everyday. I must admit I really started all the fights.. But God knows if we were together things would be different.. Now my heart wants him back. I am praying about it.. Because I believe he is the man the Lord has prepared for me. I don't know what to do anymore. He said we can still be friends but will not turn back to me again.. I ask for your prayers and your advices.. Please pray for us.. He's name is Shadrack by the way.. Emmanuel everyone!! Thanking you in advance! :)

by: Anonymous


I love my man
by: Adamma James

First of all, I would like to tell that this is my first time to fallen in love with a Nigerian guy. I'm kinda scared at first but then I put brave on myself to meet him. He's an igbo man. He really take care of me. He's everything for me now. He taught me how to be a human being. But the problem is we have a different culture and religion. That's the matter of this relationship. We've been talking about this but never find any solution yet. For me to know igbo culture is the best thing happened in my life. The food and the way of his life really changed my perspective about African. Especially Nigerian which are really large nowadays in my country. Me and my boyfriend almost to one year now. And I pray that we will be together until the end of the day. With God name I hope He will fulfill our wishes to be together. I love him so much so so him.

by: Anonymous

Hi.I have just met a Nigerian guy.At the moment he is ticking all my boxes.But. I am so very frightened to let him in so to speak .incase all what he is telling me is just words I long to hear from a guy.How will I know if he is for Real.Am white by the way.

He's the Best
by: Anonymous

I have been dating an Igbo man for 5 months now. He's exactly what I've been looking for all my life.

Hausa man
by: Anonymous

The worest man ever I was used for citizenship omg don't marry a Hausa man they lye cheat and will steal from u

Me and mine
by: Anonymous

I'm in love with my Ibo man, strong, respectful, wonderful, God fearing. But one thing I know is that, an Igbo man doesn't have time for games. They have big Egos, they know that they have good characteristics so ty they will find a mate easily, please do not believe all the negative things you read and hear about ANYONE...that is stereotyping...
I love my man we have been together for 2+ years and the love gets deeper and better. I have not grown tired of him, i love his accent, stature, foods, stories, etc., he has his papers, lol... been in the US for 10+, hardworking,
I cant wait to marry this man...
But these type of men, do not like to go back, if something is not working they move on and so does there heart.

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